A few years back, my husband and I realized we needed more insurance coverage than just our renter’s insurance and our car insurance, we needed a life insurance policy in case of an unexpected and unfortunate event: death. We had been married for a few years, were still young, and discussed how our lives would be affected if one of us were to die unexpectedly. We had already been living on a combined income and the thought of losing half of an income due to death made us uneasy. We also worried that we wouldn’t be able to afford the cost of funeral preparations in such an instance.

Our renter’s insurance would replace any items lost in a fire or natural disaster, but only covered medical expenses, not funeral arrangements or a lump sum payout at the time of death. And our car insurance would only cover death in the case of a car accident. But what if one of us died crossing the street or falling from a ladder?

We researched both permanent life insurance and term life insurance. A permanent life insurance policy has a cash value, a small portion of the payments are invested. A term life insurance policy has no cash value, but the payments are usually much lower increasing in increments over time. Because we were young, our late twenties, our premiums for either type of insurance plan would be low. However, we had a budget of how much we could spend on a policy that would (hopefully) exist for many years to come.

After weighing the benefits of premium life and term life, we decided to purchase a term life policy for $100,000. This amount felt like just enough to help pay for an unhappy change of life event, cover any funeral preparations, and the lost salary for a short period of time allowing the surviving spouse to recover both emotionally and financially. We also chose this type of plan because we felt that as we became more financially secure in our late 40’s and 50’s, we may not need a life insurance policy. If we held onto our policy for 15 to 20 years, we would only have paid in about $12,000. This seemed like a good financial choice: pay $12,000 and in the event of an unfortunate death, one of us would receive $100,000.

What really made me choose against purchasing a permanent life policy was that when I was younger, I purchased a policy that I eventually cashed out. Feeling as if I might be tempted to repeat my actions, I decided that a term policy would keep it simple and safe. Neither of us would be able to convince the other to cash it out for a trip to the Bahamas, a flat screen TV, or a new car.

On our term policy, our payments would be based on our current health and age. I qualified for the lowest payment bracket, $10 a month. However, my husband, being a smoker, was viewed as a health risk. His monthly payment was more than three times mine, $33 a month! As shocking as the price difference was, we still felt it was a good option. For less than $500 a year, we can rest assured that in case of an unfortunate event, the other person will have some peace of mind knowing that they can take their time to recuperate and resume their lives without sinking into financial ruin.

Have you purchased a life insurance policy for your family? Which policy did you select and why?


  1. I have a cash policy and if I were to do it over again I’d get a term policy. Though the cash policy guaranteed return is far better than any bank account now! Silver lining … 🙂

  2. I have a term policy as well. I think I got 20-year term, I can’t remember for sure. But my feeling was that it would take care of my son if something happened before he was old enough to take care of himself.

  3. My husband and I both have term policies. We have more coverage for him than me since his income would be harder to replace.

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